Las Madres '80 East
DECEMBER 2008 NEWSLETTER

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COMING EVENTS

Month of December
Saturday Coffees
9 am
  LeBou at San Felipe/Yerba Buena

Contact: Kathy

December 6
Napa B&B Tour & Taste
2-7 pm
Contact: Sue Butler

December 16
Christmas Party
6:30 pm
Merrilee's Home
Contact: Merrilee

December 20
Coffee Field Trip
9 am
Bijan Bakery & Cafe
Contact: Kathy



DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS
2nd     Phil Martinez
3rd     Sean Nevoli
8th  
    Bud Butler
11th  
   Eddie Butler
21st  
  Jennifer Butler
28th  
Sharon Simmons


Christmas Party
When: Tuesday, December 16, 6:30 pm
Where: Merrilee's Home
What: Our Annual Potluck & Gift Exchange

Our annual Christmas party will be at Merrilee's on TUESDAY, December 16.  Please let Merilee know if you are coming and what you would like to bring.  (We have plenty of appetizers.)

The gift exchange has no particular theme, $20.00 is the amount.  (watch out if you do gift cards, Robin said many places are going to be closing after the first of the year, and those gift cards worthless.)



Thank You, Sue!
Thank you to Sue Ballard for all her hard work in arranging for us to have a Christmas tree at "Christmas in the Park" She printed out pictures & supplied all the needed craft supplies for us to make over 60 ornaments for our tree. Then a crew of decorators showed up Friday to make our tree a Christmas memory. Thank you to all you helped Sue with this project!!



Napa B&B Tour & Taste Event
When:  Saturday, December 6, 2008
Time: 2 PM to 7 PM
Cost:  $55 per person for ticket (went up $10.00 this year)
 
Any questions please call or e-mail
Sue Butler.


Mexican Riviera Cruise in 2009
All monies are fully refundable if cancelled by the final payment in July 2009......CLICK for flyer!



Saturday Coffee Clatches Continue
We've moved our "regular" place to Le Boulanger at San Felipe and Yerba Buena.  There is a Starbucks across from it if you need something "special" to go with your bagel or pastry. Our field trip this month will be December 20 at Bijan Bakery & Cafe, 170 S. Market Street by the Fairmont Hotel. Afterwards we can check out our tree at Christmas in the park and see what holiday displays are at the Fairmont.

e-Mail Tidbit

Old Age, I decided, is a gift.
 
I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be.  Oh, not my body!  I sometime despair over my  body, the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt.  And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror (who looks like my mother!), but I don't agonize over those things for long.
 
I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly.  As I've aged, I've become more kind to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.
 
I don't chide myself   for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying  that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so avante garde on my patio.  I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be  extravagant.
 
I   have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
 
Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon?    I will dance with   myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60's & 70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ... I will.  I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set.
They, too, will get old.
 
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken.  How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car?  But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion.  A heart never  broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.
 
I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into  deep grooves on my face.  So many have never laughed, and so  many have died before their hair could turn silver.
 
As you get older, it is easier to be positive.  You care less about what other people think.  I don't question myself anymore.  I've even earned the right to be wrong.
 
So, to answer your question, I like being old.  It has set me free.  I like the person I have become.  I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be.  And I shall eat dessert every single day. (If I feel like it)
 
MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S STRAIGHT FROM THE   HEART!
 
MAY YOU ALWAYS HAVE A RAINBOW OF SMILES ON YOUR FACE AND IN YOUR HEART FOREVER AND EVER!


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DECEMBER WEBSITE
Mrs. Claus' Cookbook
http://www.northpole.com/Kitchen/Cookbook/


CLUB OFFICERS
President - Sue Butler
Treasurer - Vicki Rasmussen
Newsletter & Webmaster - Ginny Gomez
Coffee Coordinator - Kathy Roessler
Executive Committee - Randi Heinrichsen, Joan Wilson and Sally Brooks-Schulke
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