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As
she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the
very first day of school, she told the children
an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at
her students and said that she loved them all
the same. However, that was impossible, because
there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was
a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs.
Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and
noticed that he did not play well with the other
children, that his clothes were messy and that
he constantly needed a bath. In addition, Teddy
could be unpleasant.
It
got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would
actually take delight in marking his papers with
a broad red pen, making bold X's and then
putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.
At
the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was
required to review each child's past records and
she put Teddy's off until last. However, when
she reviewed his file, she was in for a
surprise.
Teddy's
first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright
child with a ready laugh. He does his work
neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to be
around.."
His
second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an
excellent student, well liked by his classmates,
but he is troubled because his mother has a
terminal illness and life at home must be a
struggle."
His
third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death
has been hard on him. He tries to do his best,
but his father doesn't show much interest and
his home life will soon affect him if some steps
aren't taken."
Teddy's
fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn
and doesn't show much interest in school. He
doesn't have many friends and he sometimes
sleeps in class."
By
now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she
was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when
her students brought her Christmas presents,
wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper,
except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily
wrapped in the heavy, brown paper That he got
from a grocery bag Mrs. Thompson took pains to
open it in the middle of the other presents.
Some of the children started to laugh when she
found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the
stones missing, and a bottle that was
one-quarter full of perfume.. But she stifled
the children's laughter when she exclaimed how
pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and
dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy
Stoddard stayed after school that day just long
enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled
just like my Mom used to." After the children
left, she cried for at least an hour.
On
that very day, she quit teaching reading,
writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to
teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular
attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his
mind seemed to come alive. The more she
encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the
end of the year, Teddy had become one of the
smartest children in the class and, despite her
lie that she would love all the children the
same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets.."
A
year later, she found a note under her door,
from Teddy, telling* her that she was still the
best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Six
years went by before she got another note from
Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high
school, third in his class, and she was still
the best teacher he ever had in life.
Four
years after that, she got another letter, saying
that while things had been tough at times, he'd
stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would
soon graduate from college with the highest of
honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was
still the best and favorite teacher he had ever
had in his whole life.
Then
four more years passed and yet another letter
came. This time he explained that after he got
his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little
further. The letter explained that she was still
the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But
now his name was a little longer.... The letter
was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.
The
story does not end there. You see, there was yet
another letter that spring. Teddy said he had
met this girl and was going to be married. He
explained that his father had died a couple of
years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson
might agree to sit at the wedding in the place
that was usually reserved for the mother of the
groom.
Of
course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She
wore that bracelet, the one with several
rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she
was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered
his mother wearing on their last Christmas
together.
They
hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in
Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson
for* believing in me. Thank you so much for
making me feel important and showing me that I
could make a difference."
Mrs.
Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered
back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong.
You were the one who taught me that I could make
a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I
met you."
(For
you that don't know, Teddy Stoddard is the Dr.
at Iowa Methodist Hospital in Des Moines that
has the Stoddard Cancer Wing.)
Random
acts of kindness, I think they call it?
Believe in Angels, then return the
favor.